May 2012
10 posts
BDSM Problem #171
bdsmproblems: When you keep seeing discussions about “CBT” (cognitive behavioral therapy) coming up on your Tumblr dash, and all you can think about is Cock and Ball Torture. Happened to me in conversation with a relative. Oy vey.
May 30th
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BDSM Problem #122
bdsmproblems: Being a female dom turned on by male subs and only finding the exact opposite. 
May 30th
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BDSM Problem #111
bdsmproblems: Go to a sick ass underground S&M party. Have the most debauched night of your life. Next day at work: “What did you do this weekend?” “Nothin.” Is even worse when your family asks that.
May 30th
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BDSM Problem #33
bdsmproblems: Corsets in the summer. -holly-gonightly Yes.
May 30th
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BDSM Problem #77
bdsmproblems: Mom : “Please tell me those scratches are from being attacked by a rabid cat last night…” Someone at my sub’s workplace asked him something like that a few months ago. 
May 30th
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May 30th
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mr zeitgeist: The Truth About Kinky Women →
mrzeitgeist: This was written in response to a FetLife post. The poster was wondering why no one was responding to his profile or his entreaties to be invited to parties. You want to meet a girl that you can explore your kinky side with. That’s wonderful. Let me ask you something: Do you have a…
May 30th
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Updates
It’s been a long time since I’ve blogged in a more “traditional” manner like this. I feel like I’m stalled at this point in my life. It’s only recently, say in the past few months, that I’ve come to terms with the fact that I might be under a lot more stress than I was willing to admit to myself. And when I “admit” I mean like to other people,...
May 25th
May 25th
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You Know You're Trans* When: #2386 Your cis-male...
youknowyouretrans: Credit: http://felixgleekhp.tumblr.com/
May 4th
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May 1st
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April 2012
12 posts
Charm And Rigor — Richard Morgan →
Apr 26th
What do dominant women want?  →
Apr 24th
Why Rape Isn’t One Big Misunderstanding - The... →
Apr 19th
The Bronies Take Manhattan →
Apr 11th
Backpage.com Isn't the Problem, Say Sex Workers →
Apr 10th
The Hello Kitty Chainsaw Massacre →
Apr 10th
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It’s Not A War On Women—It’s A War On Sex  →
Apr 10th
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The Absurd Myths Porn Teaches Us About Sex |... →
Apr 7th
Chemistry vs Compatibility  →
Apr 6th
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Sex, lies and the boomerang generation  →
Apr 3rd
Femdom and Fulfillment →
Apr 3rd
March 2012
8 posts
E-Z Rope Flogger →
Mar 17th
3 tags
Our nation of moaners →
Mar 17th
What's behind a porn star name →
Mar 17th
“If you don’t look the part of a queer, then you don’t exist.”
– San Francisco turned me straight - Salon — After Dark - Salon.com
Mar 17th
Mar 15th
88 notes
Kinky Cupcakes! →
A baker after my own heart.
Mar 15th
A dirty dirty dirty Pandora's Box of Hell. - The... →
Mar 12th
Woman: Can I have birth control?
Government: No.
Woman: I got pregnant because I didn't have birth control and I don't want the fetus. Can I have an abortion?
Government: No.
Woman: I gave birth to my child but since I wasn't expecting it, I can't afford daycare. Can I have help paying for it?
Government: No.
Woman: Well, why can't I have birth control?
Government: Because. Sex isn't for recreation.
Woman: It can help regulate my period and benefit me in other ways.
Government: Too bad.
Man: For no reason other than for recreational sex, may I have birth control?
Government: Do you have a penis?
Man: YES, YES I DO!!
Government: WELL HOWDY, VALID CITIZEN. You can buy condoms by the dozens. Here, here's a pack of special condom for "His Pleasure." Oooh, these come in different colours and flavours. Here, try these. They have ribs on them. And this one glows in the dark!! LOL OMG DICK LIGHTSABER!!
Government: But seriously, you're a man. You can do what ever you want.
Woman: But-
Government: Shut up, you sinning, freeloading hussy.
Mar 1st
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January 2012
1 post
1 tag
formspring.me
Ask me… http://www.formspring.me/CuriousCurves
Jan 3rd
December 2011
2 posts
{About study BDSM education} →
Dec 2nd
Madonna Vs Lady Gaga (Infographic) | Only... →
Dec 2nd
August 2011
1 post
BDSM & Rape: What Now? | Charlie Glickman →
Aug 19th
June 2011
1 post
Jun 4th
45 notes
February 2011
1 post
10 reasons why I’d be a lousy professional... →
Feb 7th
September 2010
1 post
Sep 9th
August 2010
2 posts
Do you have an inclination for BDSM?
// ]]]]>]]> // ]]]]>]]> You Scored as Dominant (((Note: This quiz doesn’t cover all aspects of BDSM due to the length that such a comprehensive quiz would be. I chose to keep it sex-based because the psychological reasons behind fetishes are complex and different for everyone to some degree.))) Sex is about power and you like to be powerful. It’s nice to be in charge and get...
Aug 24th
The Whore Journals: Werewolves, Foot Fetishists... →
Aug 10th
July 2010
9 posts
The Shoe and Underwear Book by Ian Reid →
Jul 27th
Leaving Normal—The Whys and Wherefores of the... →
Jul 19th
The Man Project: David Steinberg « Sexuality «... →
Jul 19th
Secrets of a Sex Writer: A Little Bit Poly «  →
Jul 19th
Control Tower by Mistress Matisse - Columns -... →
Jul 18th
My Partner Is Kinky →
Jul 8th
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Wet Spots — writingdirty →
Jul 6th
Welcome to My Lady's Toys! →
Jul 6th
*VIOLENT FEMS* Extra! Extra! Read it! (page A1) →
Jul 1st
June 2010
9 posts
Folsom Street East Photos (2 f 3) →
Jun 28th
Negotiation – Not Nearly as Awkward as Having a... →
Jun 28th